Checklists – The Ultimate Self Care Hack

#ChecklistDay #SelfCareTips

As the busiest season of the year approaches, there’s no shortage of things to do. Between Halloween costumes, candy, and makeup, Thanksgiving grocery runs and dinner prep, and Christmas gifts, cards, and decorations, it’s easy for even the best planner to feel overwhelmed.

That’s exactly why checklists are such powerful tools — and why Checklist Day (yes, it’s a real thing!) is officially celebrated every year on October 30th.

Sounds a bit surreal, doesn’t it? But the history is pretty fascinating — the concept of a checklist actually originated as a safety measure in aviation, designed to help pilots avoid overlooking critical steps before takeoff. Today, we may not be flying planes, but the same principle applies: checklists keep us grounded, focused, and on track — especially during the holiday rush.

Beyond practicality, checklists are also a form of self-care. Staying organized and efficient helps reduce stress, save time, and bring a little order to the chaos that often comes with the end of the year.

So, why not celebrate Checklist Day by creating a few of your own? Whether it’s for holiday shopping, meal prep, or simply managing your weekend chores, a good checklist can turn overwhelm into accomplishment.

Here are a few tips to make the end of the year a breeze and set the stage for a productive, peaceful season ahead:

Thinking of a Master Plan

Take some time to consider the task at hand. Start by clarifying what you need to accomplish. Is it decluttering your space, planning a holiday menu, or organizing your gift list? A clear focus makes your checklist more purposeful.

Seek and Find Results

Observe Yourself. What tasks do you usually miss or skip? Do you find yourself running back to the store for forgotten items or realizing you overlooked a spot while cleaning? Pay attention to these habits — they’ll show you where your checklists can help most.

In No Logical Order

Write a Random List — Then Sort and Categorize. Do a quick brain dump of everything on your mind, then group related tasks together (home, work, holiday, errands). This turns chaos into clarity.

Duly Noted

Create Notecards or Sticky Notes. If you’re visual, write tasks on sticky notes so you can rearrange and prioritize them easily. Plus, it’s oddly satisfying to crumple or peel one off when you’re done.

Digitize the Day

Use Digital Devices. Apps like Google Keep, Notion, or Trello make it easy to track tasks and sync them across your phone or laptop. Perfect for busy days when you’re bouncing between errands.

Congrats to You

Reward Yourself for Completing Tasks. Celebrate your progress — big or small. Whether it’s enjoying a quiet coffee, watching your favorite show, or buying that seasonal candle, small rewards keep you motivated.

Final Thought:

Checklists aren’t just about marking off boxes — they’re about creating space for what really matters. This Checklist Day, take a few minutes to organize your thoughts, simplify your to-dos, and set yourself up for a calmer, more joyful end of the year. That’s what self care is all about. 

3 Holiday Self Care Tips

The holiday season can be a joyful time of the year. There’s the gift list, the Christmas tree, dinner, decor and more. It can be so amazing, but also somewhat stressful. Don’t forget to add a little selfcare. It’s the greatest gift you can give to yourself! Here are three self-care tips to help you prioritize Your well-being during the Christmas holiday:

Set Boundaries and Prioritize Rest

There may be tons of social events, gatherings, and commitments. It’s important to set boundaries and prioritize rest. Give yourself permission to turn down invitations if you feel overwhelmed or need some downtime.

Designate specific days for relaxation, where you can unwind without any pressure. Whether it’s a quiet evening at home, reading a book, or taking a long bath, make time for activities that help you recharge.

Create Meaningful Traditions

Instead of getting caught up in the hustle and bustle, focus on creating meaningful memories that bring you and your loved ones joy. Try watching your favorite holiday movie, baking cookies with loved ones, or taking a leisurely stroll through the neighborhood. 

Do things that resonate with you personally and align with your values. Building positive traditions can add a sense of comfort and fulfillment to the holiday season.

Practice Mindfulness and Gratitude

Reflect on the positive aspects of your life and the things you’re thankful for.

Incorporate mindfulness techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindful walks to stay present and reduce stress. Keep a gratitude journal to write down daily reflections on the things that bring you happiness and fulfillment.

Be mindful of your holiday experience – appreciate the beautiful decorations, savor the flavors of seasonal dinners, and enjoy the company of your loved ones.

Self-care is a personal journey, and it’s essential to listen to your own needs. Taking time for yourself during the holiday season can contribute to a more enjoyable experience and get you prepared for a prosperous new year!

Best Lipstick for Office Vibes #beautyreview

I have literally spent years trying to find the right lipstick colors that not only match my moods, style, trends, and complexion – but one that I can wear in the office. I know things are a lot more relaxed right now and many people are working remotely but I’ve always dreamed of having a lip color that works for that ultimate professional vibe or you know the makeup with no makeup look.

I have tried a number of lipsticks from Revlon, Kylie Cosmetics, Maybelline, Ulta, Sephora, Burt’s Bees, and local beauty shops. I tried mac lipstick, matte lipstick, and liquid lipstick – even pink lipstick, nude lipstick, and lip gloss, but I never really just found that one perfect everyday lipstick color for me. I must admit that I am a big fan of Carmax but I wanted something with that same soothing feeling with just a hint of color. This has been a process that has taken place over the years resulting in a collection of at least 25 lipsticks. BUT recently, I decided to give it another try and stumbled upon the perfect Chapstick that gives me just a hint of lip color without being too overly made up or glossy.

Along came Chap Stick total hydration. I ordered the Chap Stick from Amazon and I was really impressed so here’s my review!

(Just as a side note – I designed a new scoring system for my future beauty product reviews and I’ll be using it to rate this beauty product.)

Beauty Score

Price                                                                                                                      10

The item is reasonably priced.

Quality                                                                                                                  10

The product is of good quality and there is a wide variety of colors.

Availability                                                                                                          10

The product is widely available in local drug stores and online.

Packaging                                                                                                            10

The packaging is of high quality, protective, and easy to open.

Product                                                                                                                10

The product aligns with claims made by the company.

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Lipstick Woes – Beauty Review

Has anyone out there found themselves engulfed in the mission of finding the perfect lipstick? I have a cosmetic bag preserved for lipsticks only. There are a number of colors like purples, nudes, pinks, and mauves and it’s not because I’m a lipstick guru. I have been challenged in finding the right color and texture. I like a lot of them for different occasions or moments when I feel like playing around in my makeup, but the color that I’ve had trouble finding is the one for every-day wear.


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I’m talking about that perfect lip color that is appropriate for the quick run to the grocery store, business meeting, or even the gym. I’ve come close many times but end up making a mistake and letting the one that I like get lost in a cycle in the washer and dryer. I’ve literally ruined clothes over this major lipstick mission. And then I’ve found another, but then only find out that the store decided to discontinue it. Before I know it, I am on the hunt again and adding yet more lipsticks to my cosmetic bag.


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Here is my story on lipstick: 

Ulta Festival Crayon – I instantly fell in love with this color only to learn that it was a seasonal color with limited availability. I’ve tried a few other sources like Amazon and Poshmark to find sellers.

NYX Slip Tease Strawberry Whip – I bought this one at a local cosmetic store and really like it on days when I’m feeling vibrant and ultra-feminine.

NYX Root Bear Butter Float – This is a nice neutral pinkish mauve that is suitable for the office or everyday wear.

Cover Girl Katy Perry Pink Paws – This is my absolute favorite color for special events or photo shoots. It gives just a little bit of sexy glam without being over the top. 

MamaStarrr Satin Patrick Starr – I love the texture of this lipstick and this color is great with my browns, creams, and greens. It is super smooth and moisturizing.

I most recently discovered the Beauty by POPSUGAR Sweet Satin Matte Lip Color and ordered a color called First Kiss. I am hoping that I’ll love this one as much as I loved the Ulta Crayon. I did find a nice replacement in the Ulta crayon line, but it was a matte and I used the Burt’s Bees lip oil over the top. I’m hoping that this gives me the look I want, but glad to have found a few others along the way. I’ll be sure to keep you updated.

What is your interesting story about finding the right lipstick color, I’d love to hear?

Are you into purples, pinks, mauves, or nudes? I’ve heard that Kylie’s line is incredible!

What’s going on in you make up bag?

#valentinesday